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Old 01-24-2006 | 10:13 PM
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Aw yay! Im happy for you Remmy. Sometimes you gotta just tell the other person the complete truth, even if it may hurt their feelings a bit. Im sure it would hurt more to just break up.

O and Pete...I was thinking, you dont wanna have to worry about a girl when youre tryna have fun in Vegas and Laguna. Trust me, you'll meet some girls on you vaca. Its coming up soon huh?

leaving on monday the 30th. Dont worry, ill post plennnnnty of pics.
 
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Old 01-25-2006 | 12:06 AM
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being straight and honest with someone is the best thing you can do for a relationship. It sets the ground rules for each person, you know up front what each person expects out of the relationship. If something is bothering you and you don't tell her/him about it honestly they won't have an opportunity to change or adapt, just make sure you always do it with respect, and let them know how it makes you feel when they do certain things, and just say" I want you to know blah blah blah, and the reason is, I really want us to work and I feel being honest and straight forward is the only way to respect you and our relationship" If they have a problem with you being honest, then honestly you shouldn't be with them. All you will get is games and headaches, or migrains like low si :P BTW what happened to your ride?
 
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Old 01-25-2006 | 08:15 AM
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hey, its fine. I can handle it. I will find someone else. Not rushing @ all.
That'a boy, no need to rush. Theres plenty of fishin' to be done
 
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Old 01-25-2006 | 11:31 AM
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Ive got plenty of money, ill have my OWN place for a WEEK in laguna Beach.........gee sucks huh? LOL. Me and 2 good friends of mine..........Laguna has no idea whats going to happen to it.
 
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Old 01-25-2006 | 06:37 PM
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She does nothing about anything when a problem arises. Like tonight I was going to go out to dinner with her. Of course, when she says that it basically means "why dont we go out to dinner and you get to pay?". Its 2006 and she rarely offers a meal for me. Turns out I cant really because I had to drive my brother to my moms so he can get online and use the internet. She had a cow with that. She texts me (which I cant stand because she hides behind her phone onstead of being a real woman and telling me) "it would have been nice for you to come see me before you go". She couldnt tell me that on the phone!? She happend to be downtown tonight (where I live) and why cant she come see me!? UUUGGGGHHHHH!!!! Seeing her is a 20 mile trip. That I always travel instead of her. I know im a guy and what not but comon, this isnt the 50's anymore.
wow, how does that sound so familiar? haha. my gf lives half an hour away and always expects me to go there and both she AND her parents expect me to pay for when we go out, so i feel your pain there. she will suprise me once in a while though by paying for my dinner or comming to take care of me when i'm sick. kind of like nail, when we were together in cancun this year i gave her a 3 diamond ring (1.37k [:@]) which cost just a little bit, but then she suprised me when we got back by compensating me for it with a new set of sicker equipment. ya just need to find a balance sometimes, and when it gets out of hand on their part you just need to be firm and stand up for yourself. seems like this is a tendency of many women, or am i wrong
 
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Old 01-25-2006 | 10:21 PM
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Actually, honestly, I dont like it when my bf pays for me. I learned growing up, that its important to be independent, and no matter what Im doing, I try to be as independent as possible. Even little stuff. Last spring I got a new desk for my bedroom, and I had to move my old one out, and put my new one in. My mom made a comment about how I can just call my bf to have him come move it for me..So even tho he was at my house when I did it, I would not let hm help me. And I got my old desk out of my room, and my new one in just fine.

I think girls who expect their boyfriends to pay for everything and basically do most of the rough stuff in the relationship give girls in general a bad name. I mean, Im not gonna say that girls dont like to get girfts once in a while, but I see no problem with paying for myself.
 
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Old 01-25-2006 | 10:56 PM
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I think girls who expect their boyfriends to pay for everything and basically do most of the rough stuff in the relationship give girls in general a bad name. I mean, Im not gonna say that girls dont like to get girfts once in a while, but I see no problem with paying for myself.
nice way to think, too bad not many other girls are in the same kind of mindset. to them everythings expected, not the guys just doing it because they want to. you'll definately make a guy very happy some day amanda haha. i think the words of dave chappelle describe it best...

"Chivalry is dead...and women killed it."
 
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Old 01-25-2006 | 11:16 PM
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Haha thanks. And I already make a guy very happy. Atleast I think thats the reason hes stuck around for the past two years.. haha.
 
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Old 01-25-2006 | 11:31 PM
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oh i thought you said before that you had a boyfriend. my fault
 
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Old 01-25-2006 | 11:56 PM
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Ooo...well maybe cause Ive talked about us breaking up cause we did last summer for a little bit. (Basically he was an idiot, and once he realized wat he lost, and tried to make up for it, I took his *** back. But that wont happen again. he only gets so many chances..)
 


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