Women Help....UPDATE
#34
01-23-2006 | 06:58 PM
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RE: Women Help....
Im about to dump my girl friend. Shes driving me crazy latley! Im about to go insane. She does nothing about anything when a problem arises. Like tonight I was going to go out to dinner with her. Of course, when she says that it basically means "why dont we go out to dinner and you get to pay?". Its 2006 and she rarely offers a meal for me. Turns out I cant really because I had to drive my brother to my moms so he can get online and use the internet. She had a cow with that. She texts me (which I cant stand because she hides behind her phone onstead of being a real woman and telling me) "it would have been nice for you to come see me before you go". She couldnt tell me that on the phone!? She happend to be downtown tonight (where I live) and why cant she come see me!? UUUGGGGHHHHH!!!! Seeing her is a 20 mile trip. That I always travel instead of her. I know im a guy and what not but comon, this isnt the 50's anymore.
To make it worse, Im aggravated from her constant childish antics and immaturity to deal with a pittly argument just like stated above. And puts me in a catch 22 so I cant resolve anything. She never helps me help her. So she also decides to turn off her phone. Damnit im mad! Im just going to stop before I get even more pissed off.
To make it worse, Im aggravated from her constant childish antics and immaturity to deal with a pittly argument just like stated above. And puts me in a catch 22 so I cant resolve anything. She never helps me help her. So she also decides to turn off her phone. Damnit im mad! Im just going to stop before I get even more pissed off.
#35
01-23-2006 | 07:04 PM
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RE: Women Help....
Remmy, I deff. fell ya on that one, basically both paragraph's I suggest dumping her, and either being on your on for awhile, or finding a new girl, don't rush it though, a reltionship is suppose to be nice and easy, not fustrating
#36
01-23-2006 | 07:05 PM
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RE: Women Help....
ORIGINAL: pcupo12
so i caught her before class, asked her smoothly "Hey, how ya been?" "Good you?" "Not bad, hey i was curious to see if you were still interested in going out sometime" "Oh, well i have a boyfriend" "Oh no problem, i guess ill see ya around"
went into class, talked to the proff, and im taking the final exam (Which i will ace) and i get an A in the course, and wont see her anymore..........eh she prolly wasnt good enough for me anyway, i guess ill just dump some more cash into the civic........haha. Tranny swap is due.
so i caught her before class, asked her smoothly "Hey, how ya been?" "Good you?" "Not bad, hey i was curious to see if you were still interested in going out sometime" "Oh, well i have a boyfriend" "Oh no problem, i guess ill see ya around"
went into class, talked to the proff, and im taking the final exam (Which i will ace) and i get an A in the course, and wont see her anymore..........eh she prolly wasnt good enough for me anyway, i guess ill just dump some more cash into the civic........haha. Tranny swap is due.
#37
01-23-2006 | 07:07 PM
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RE: Women Help....
I know and im not. I learned that lesson a long time ago. Come to think of it. My current girlfriend was asking me that the other night which is VERY unfair on my part and of course, putting me in a catch 22. So after her asking 10 times and my nice reply (basically saying dont ask me that dont ask me that... she didnt get a clue obviously) "I dont think that far ahead". I finaaly said "Amber, just because I say I love you doesnt mean Im going to marry you tomorrow." And of course she freaked out. I dont know what to do. [sm=headbang.gif]
#38
01-23-2006 | 07:09 PM
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RE: Women Help....
Ive just got an idea. I dunno if this is mean but its seems like it would work. Im going to call her and leave a voice mail saying "Fine, I WILL NOT call you or talk to you NOR come and see you until you quit this silly crap and call me."
Sound like a plan or not a good idea at all?
Sound like a plan or not a good idea at all?
#40
01-23-2006 | 07:16 PM
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I think you mighta said the wrong thing there. I mean I deff. understand what your saying, but it sounds like you said it the wrong way. with the marriage part
I think that should work out good, mybe not scream or anything like that, just say, I don't wanna see or talk to you untill you quit this child-ish bull**** games, well that was in my case, probaly different in your's and say, but I still care for you, or something to that affect.
I think that should work out good, mybe not scream or anything like that, just say, I don't wanna see or talk to you untill you quit this child-ish bull**** games, well that was in my case, probaly different in your's and say, but I still care for you, or something to that affect.