Ok so heres how it goes. About a year ago Im in this math class @ my college, and there is a very good looking girl sitting infront of me. We would chat from time to time, and she was super cool. So the entire class walked out to their cars after class, we all parked in the same lot. So i catch her one day and asked her if she would be interested in going out to dinner. She said "Yea that sounds like fun.........." She was in a rush so I was like "Okay I'll let ya go, we'll exhange #'s next class. So I go to the next class and shes not there...........then the next class I missed. So then we had our final, and I never saw her again.............



Last week Im waiting to go into my spanish class with my buddy, and I see this girl walking up, and she looked very familiar.........then it clicked.........it was her. So she comes up to me and shes like "Hey i know you" and I played it off like I didnt know her, because i thought she screwed me over last year........so shes talking to me for a minute, and then she stopped, which could have been because i seemed uninterested???? So we walk into class, and my friend is like "Bro jump on that, shes interested"........So I explain the situation and hes like "Obviously shes interested, otherwise she wouldn't have started talking to you. So I have class tomorrow, should I ask her out again? How should I word it, thus NOT making myself look like an ***?........... Anyone?



Your HCF Pal,
-Pete

 

Just be real smooth about it. Walk up to her and say something along the lines of "Holy crap I just realised last night that you were in my math class last year, but I never did see you after we took the finals. Maybe we could go out to lunch some time to catch up on things." Just be as natural and normal as possible when you are talking to her. Don't act nervous, but don't be so outgoing that she thinks you are coming on to her. Just be the smooth, cool Pete that we all know.

 

See heres the thing, i dont have problems being cool calm and collective, im just having trouble on what exactly to say.

 

To be completely honest, I would wait maybe a few days (or classes) and chat her up. Make sure she is available. She probably is and is interested in you again, because she started a conversation with you..But Id check out the situation just to be sure. Sometimes us girls do things unintentionally. She probably didnt mean to miss the next class last year, to avoid giving you the number, and setting up a date, or she probably would have just said no.

So if you are still interested, and it seems like she is, go for it! Maybe it was meant to be. I kinda believe in all that..

Good luck!

 

yea I belive in fate too........its sick too cuz shes DEFINETLY my type..........how should i approach her though? "Hey I was just curious.......did you still want to go for that dinner?"

 

Alright, three steps to snagging the woman of your dreams:

1) Wear stone-washed white pants and a leather jacket.
2) "Do you have a mirror in your pocket?"
"No, why"
"Cause I can see myself if you pants all day long."
3) Lick finger, smooth eyebrow with spit.

Swoon.

 

Well I'd recommend having more conversation before you get to that part. Like her name might be important...

 

Yea you could just ask her if shes still interested in that dinner. Thats cool that you met someone your type and now you have the opportunity again to go for it. Its nice when I guy isnt to scared to make the first move, and ask us out. It sucks for girls when they feel like they gotta do the asking, and the pursuing..

Also Adam...Im not sure thats the BEST way to get women..haha

 

Or how about a good ice breaker.............."Hey did you make up your mind yet?"
"About what?"
"That dinner we were supposed to have last yr"

 

To be honest women dont like games or acts, just go up and say hey I asked you out last year and you said yes but we never seen eachother again. Then say "I wanted to know if you were still interested in a date or dinner"

You are both adults treat her and the situation like an adult would and dont beat around the bush, if you get turned down you get turned down so what.