need advice...relationship problems
#31
05-15-2007, 05:56 AM
RE: need advice...relationship problems
My advice is to keep your head up and don't be afraid that you will never find another person again. I am going on a2 1/2 year relationship and we just let things happen, and we have a lot more to worry about (differences in religions which is not something we worry about but our parents do). But, just let things happen. It seems that you are forcing things to happen to make yourself feel as though everything is ok. Keep in mind that you are also still young, and he is a little bit older. Just be careful. he says he deleted it for good, but in reality a s/n only gets deleted if it has been inactive for some time. so if he wants to get back on it, he can. And, if you are too forceful about letting him do what he wants to do, than he will just start doing it more and more behind your back. He is his own person to and dont forget that, if you take too much from him, than he will feel like the relationship is too one-sided. Remember, he needs his space at times. But, like i said, just let things happen.
#32
05-15-2007, 11:21 AM
RE: need advice...relationship problems
I was thinking along the same lines, nobody wants to be told what to do, especially a 20 something male. Space is a good thing, people these days spend every second together until they lose the tingly feeling (aka get sick of each other). You need time with your friends, he needs time with his.
As far as the ex's go, the more you focus on it the worse it will get, if you trust him let it go, if not then you should go. Jealousy will break up a relationship quicker than you think. Your 17 and are acting like it, take these peoples advice, some of it is good (the kind of stuff you learn by going through these situations). If it's meant to be it will be, if not, well......
Good luck and have fun, your too young to be worrying about **** like this.
As far as the ex's go, the more you focus on it the worse it will get, if you trust him let it go, if not then you should go. Jealousy will break up a relationship quicker than you think. Your 17 and are acting like it, take these peoples advice, some of it is good (the kind of stuff you learn by going through these situations). If it's meant to be it will be, if not, well......
Good luck and have fun, your too young to be worrying about **** like this.
#34
05-15-2007, 03:41 PM
RE: need advice...relationship problems
I take it your her b/f?lol Cool. Good luck guys, I hope it works out ok.
#38
05-15-2007, 05:31 PM
RE: need advice...relationship problems
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