One - tell her you said you wanted her to wear more colors for her health. I don't know why anyone would wear dark colors in So Cal, let alone Temecula of all places. The air just sits and gets hotter and hotteR and hottER and hotTER and hoTTER and hOTTER and HOTTER! You just don't want her to get heat stroke.

Two - no idea

Three - again, So Cal. You're a dude, you're either into cars, trucks, the beach, or the snow. What does she talk about? Does she just listen? It's hard for guys to come up with new material if they do all the talking which inherently is unnatural.

If she keeps wigging out over small stuff, move on.

 

dude learn this, women are like cats they don't know what they what so they want everything. idk your young and you will probably date more girls down the road always remember dating and being married is 50/50.

on the comment you made about her clothes just tell her i think wearing colorful clothes brings out the color of you eyes and hair. on the facebook thingy idk what to tell you there lol she might have been testing you with her friends hard to tell.

every woman out there will say that about you working on your car i think they get jealous about it. her wanting to go to the honda meet might be her way of apologizing about it idk lol.

just make sure you communicate to each other and have trust cause if you don't there is no relationship trust me ive been with my wife going on 9 years. good luck and hopefully this helps you.

 

Try and work it out would obviously be the best thing. As hard as it may sound, you have to talk to her about things. It's the only way any good, healthy relationship works...If you can't comfortably talk to each other about serious, or even not so serious things, it just wont work.

"but i want this one to last as long as it can." <- I know 3 months isn't a long time but that just sounds like you want her around just because... If you reeeeally cared it'd probably be something like "I don't want to lose her at all".

Just my opinion, take how you want. Were all different anyways...

As for the other things..

1) The whole clothes thing, well you kinda dissed her style. For a girl that's a huge deal lol. In reality, it shouldn't matter how she dresses at all. Wanting her to change her style is essentially asking her in a way to change herself. She took that comment to heart which is why she now thinks she's not pretty in your eyes. Which probably really hurts her. You should really tell the one your with how pretty, beautiful, sexy, etc...they are just about everyday, and actually mean it! It makes a major psychological effect for BOTH of you. My only advice for getting her to add something new to her wardrobe is, maybe go shopping with her and pick out things for her to try on. If she doesn't like it, oh well, but it wont be as direct as "wear more color". She probably wouldn't even notice you trying to get her to try something new. You probably really should have tried that before saying anything lol. Just apologize to her for saying that, and tell her how you feel.

2) Well that's just her fault for giving you the information. I'd probably just apologize and tell her to change her password or w/e. Or simply tell her you wont go on her account. She might even think you're snooping around and that falls into trust issues so just assure her you won't do it again.

3) Only talking about cars is really not good haha. Obviously bring attention to her and what she has going on, her hobbies and whatnot. BUT, for a healthy relationship she does need to understand your passion for cars and let you do your thing. If she hates how much time you spend working on cars, or talking about them every once in a while, it just wont be good. Even if she's not into it, she should still support you.

Communication is always key, so talk to her about this stuff. If you don't say anything about the clothes thing, she'll always think she's not pretty. If you don't say anything about the facebook thing, she might always wonder what you're doing. If you don't tell her you need her support for your hobby, you'll be frustrated with her all the time about it and she'll never really understand.


Just my relationship .02

 

Yeah man..i've been dating my girlfriend for about 2.5 years, and she still gets jealous when i spend time working on my car. specially when i spend money on it lol.
I think its all normal...
and yeah i think she wanted to go to the honda meet to apologize for getting jealous about your car.

Good luck.

 

Hi bro, just stick with her for long enough until one day you snap and choke her lol jk dont!. But dude its all about trust and be more aware of how she act around you. There are signs why she doing this and hopefully you will find out my young one. Chris let the light be with you!. good luck

 

You poor fool, never EVER say anything that can even begin to be construed as an insult. Women are so very sensitive about their looks.

Buy her flowers. It's not as overused as you'd think. It works.

Shame on her for sharing info like that. I totally would never give out info like that. Gotta have some secrets.

Dude, if she has already brushed it off... don't believe it. She is over it but she'll remember it. Women will hold things like that over you for awhile. That's how it works.

 

Sounds like my baby's mom.

I can't help you with #2. Personally, I hate facebook/twitter/myspace/etc.

#3? If she doesn't like it, oh well. It's called a hobby...enjoy it. She should have her own hobbies. Don't tell me she wants to spend almost every waking hour with you, just sitting around and doing nothing.

Again... sounds like my baby's mom.

Well, I have a tarnished past which will create a biased opinion, but I would walk away and leave her.

Who knows? You might end up together forever and live happily ever-after.

LOL. Awesome. One more time, reminds me of the relationship with my baby's mom. haha

Quoted for truth.

 

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