^That's actually a pretty healthy way to look at it, becuase unless they are family or very very very close to you there is ultimately little you can do for them. (And even if they are family or exceedingly close your attempts to help them my prove useless or even backfire.)

Props Marty, you summed it up well!

 

Well the truth is that you simply cant help a person that does not want to help themselves

 

Just think... while you are sitting back saying how much they have changed for the worst; they are thinking how successful you are. That is something to be proud of [sm=smiley20.gif]