You were in a relationship for 15 years then broke up? Damn dude that freaking sucks and blows at the same time.

 

Time is the best medicine for anything heart realated. It feels like the end of the world at times, but there's tons of women in the world. Eventually, you'll be chilling on the couch and relize that there was actually a good reason for it to end and you'll say "man, f*** that hoe, I'm gonna go get laid." To me, the worst part about a relationship ending is the fact that it usually drags on forever and people tend to dwell on that. Think of it as a stepping stone, use it to fix problems before they happen in the future. Good luck, go have a beer or something

 

I think he meant 15 years ago? correct me if I'm wrong windcalmer. I also wanted to say give it some time, and if in the long run, if you are still not happy to move on, maybe she feels the same and you should give her a call again.

 

reading owns me...

 

I was with a girl fora coupleyears, her family loved me, things were going great (so I thought). She went on vacation for a week (to see her dad) and when she came back, she told me that she had been with someone else (one of her old boyfriends I guess). A couple months later she found out she was pregnant. When the baby came, we found it wasn't mine. THAT hurt. For a loooooong time.
Fast forward to 10 years later. I am now happily married to my wife for 5 years now, I have 2 beautiful children, and quite honestly I'm glad things 'didn't work out' with the other girl.
The point is, It sucks right now, and it won't get better quickly, but it will get better. Your best bet is go hang out with your friends and do things that YOU enjoy to help the healing proccess.

 

you guys are all right. everything sucks, and i'll go nuts when the dreaming thing happens to me, i had those dreams where we were together alot. imagine now....i should have a beer and i should be on the couch saying **** it

 

BWAHAHAHA!!!

And, Yeah it was 15 years AGO. ROFL

::thread jack begin:: I saw that the princess bride 20th anniversary version was out. I was 9 when that came out. I remember going to it on opening day. I AM OLD!!! ::thread jack over::

 

^^^ lolz.

thread jacking awesomeness

 

well if Byers was here i'm sure he'd say it, but since hes not: Either you're going to marry her, or you're going to break up. And while i know it rough and you guys had good times, theres more fish in the see i imagien youre pretty young, so you'll get through it man. Keep your head up

 

To be completely honest, this is true. When me n my ex broke up after over a year of going out, I didnt think I was going to find someone else and I just didnt care about anything, didnt want to go out with friends or anything of the sort. I think I do remember getting drunk a lot though after the breakup...anyway, soon enough it will fade away. You could get back together later and realize the fight wasnt worth it and it would work out, but if it doesnt, man she isnt the one then if it didnt work out. Everything happens for a reason, and ive followed that theory for the longest time. I am now dating someone that I love completely and will be getting engaged to her on Christmas. So just look around, she'll come around and when she does should be a first eye sight hit.