Bitter maybe?

 

Wow thanks for the advice everyone. I didnt expect to get such thoughtful answers from you guys. Nail thats very true how all guys are different, thats why I dont think hes cheating on me. My bf isnt the type to cheat. He is close to his mom and she taught him to respect women (Obviously this example isnt the best one) but hes a good guy most the time.
Also, the whole me and his family thing, its not that we have never gotten along, me and his mom used to actually be pretty close. She put in a good work for me at her company and I got a job there. She helped me with getting ready for college, because I was going through a time with my parents where we werent close at all. Its not so much that she doesnt like me, because she does like me personally. She just doesnt want me and her son to be together again. After we broke up last time, we both went thru a really hard time. Hes the kinda person who when is hurt, gets very defensive, and will be a dick to EVERYONE. When we broke up I think he kinda stayed away from his mom and she was worried about him. She told him when we started talking again that she didnt think it was a great idea, because she didnt want either of us to go through that again. But he decided that it wasnt up to his mom to make the decision of who he can be with and who not.
For now atleast, Ive decided to not call him. He can make the next call. Im going to the club tonite, Im not wearing my ring anymore, and Im going to do whatever feels right at the time. Im not gonna worry about if he is safe, or what he is doing. I figure, Ive made it on my own without him, and I kno I can again. Theres lots of guys I find more attractive that him, I even know who I would date if we broke up. Its just that, I love him, probably right now more than I love myself. For some reason, Ive always had a weak spot for that boy, he wasnt even my first love or anything. Ive just never felt the same way about anyone.

 

remember the dr's advice on relationships:

you either marry the person you're dating, or you break up.

there's no in-between. it's not rocket science.

so if you break up, take the dr's second bit of dating advice:

life's short. play hard...

 

my 2 cents are if he doesn't try to call, he doesn't care enough about you so you should move on. personal expiriance with me. my girl lives in New Jersey, i live in Michigan, the only communication we have is the phone. my parents don't know about us because she isn't the same religion, so on the weekends i am with my parents alot and i have a really really hard time trying to call her and get more than a 5 minute converstaion in, so we argued and we worked through it and now we are good. the difference is i make an effort to call the girl i love. i doesn't sound like he loves you if he doesn't even make an effort even to call you just to say hi.

 

I know what it's like..i was an *** to my ex-girlfriend as well.. we were only going out 10 months though..and it was summer. she was constantly aroudn...only reason i didnt invite her is because i needed to get away. but then i broke up with her 9 days before our 1 year xD